okay this’ll probably be good for me: what’s my problem?
(feel free to DM if you’d prefer that to a public reply)
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1. you have less mature of a relationship with gender (both with regards to your own, and the way you treat others because of their gender) than you think you do
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2. context: there are some maturity axes on which you are an adult-size baby. this isn't "bad" nor an insult (the exact same is true of me) [...]
problem: [...] but these personal emotional development blind spots are probably larger and deeper than you assume
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3. problem: often because of both 1) and 2), you tend to have significant overconfidence about how other people work and what would make them happy
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