okay this’ll probably be good for me: what’s my problem?
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1. you have less mature of a relationship with gender (both with regards to your own, and the way you treat others because of their gender) than you think you do
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sounds right. can you offer more specifics?
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it's hard to entirely put into words
one piece of it: you seem like you have ideas about what it means to people to be ($gender), but without the solid backing and experience to support them
it may be better to be less confident, more loose, in your own presumptions
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another way of putting it might be, it feels like you have a very eggy approach to gender. i don't mean "you are probably a trans egg", but rather, it feels like there's a similar "lack of depth" to it
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