feels like there is this weird unfortunate thing that happened in our generation where for millennials motherhood became coded conservative + misogynist so rebelling against motherhood became the edgy liberal + feminist thing to do
I'd much more blame the shift from one income families to dual income for this
you could actually have a family live off of 1 income and have a house and kids 50-60 years ago
now it's impossible and girlboss archetypes are just a response to having to work
plenty want to mom
literally every person I've dated, male and female, wanted to build a rural compound/villa with all of their friends
I am not complaining, it's just funny that I've had to establish a boundary of "not going full Waco" in every single relationship I've had