feels like there is this weird unfortunate thing that happened in our generation where for millennials motherhood became coded conservative + misogynist so rebelling against motherhood became the edgy liberal + feminist thing to do
maybe not just our generation idk maybe this goes back to the sixties
anyway not a fan of rebelling against actually really important and primal and good things to own the imaginary conservatives in our heads
i have a half-baked thing about how liberal sex norms + contraception divorcing sex from pregnancy on an emotional level as much as possible might be subtly bad
yeah! really changed my perspective. now it seems like the standard liberal casual attitude towards sex as being for pleasure is super weirdly disconnected from the way sex _produces new humans in the world_