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    1. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      2. you can practice developing your capacity to allow more and more intense emotion by letting the feeling of something arise in your body without needing to do anything with it (of course the opposite practice of learning how to release it bodily can also be helpful)

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    2. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      3. a lot of what's hard about allowing intense emotion is that it brings up other emotions - e.g. you may feel afraid of feeling angry, ashamed of feeling sad, etc. - and you can learn how to be with all of that too, although you may hurt yourself trying so be careful

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    3. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      4. @Meaningness describes two important skills that tantric practice can develop (and that i think i've developed other ways): 1) loosening the need to feel a particular way about particular situations, and 2) loosening the need to do a particular thing with a particular emotion

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    4. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      5. it can be helpful to take the internal family systems perspective that you have a bunch of "parts" and that your parts are feeling various emotions, e.g. one part may be feeling sad and another may be feeling angry at the sad part; helps you get some distance

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    5. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      QC je proslijedio/a tweet korisnika/ceQC

      6. for me it's especially helpful to relate to my parts as small children (which they often are in some sense), so i can feel compassion for their suffering see also:https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1192601917970505729 …

      QC je dodan/na,

      QC @QiaochuYuan
      Internal Puppy Systems might help: https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1184249534190256128 …
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    6. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      7. the way many people emotionally self-regulate in practice is by either fighting an emotional energy with another one (e.g. sadness with anger as above) or shutting their emotions down generally; @Meaningness also talks about this; there's another way! https://vividness.live/2012/07/03/unclogging/ …pic.twitter.com/LKzFbJYyk6

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    7. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      8. it is possible to let go of the stance that emotions have any fixed meaning. feeling fear doesn't have to mean you're weak; feeling sadness doesn't have to mean you're a crybaby; feeling anger doesn't have to mean you're bad or evil much easier to allow emotion this way

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    8. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      9. you don't have to do emotional regulation alone, although sometimes you may have no other choice. we naturally regulate each other. being around a calm person who's attuned to you is calming. you can learn to be this sort of person for others as well

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    9. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      10. and, skillfully helping others with their emotions is hard and most people don't know how to do it! by default people also attach fixed meanings to *others'* emotions - e.g. if my friend is sad i must be sad with them and try to help them or else i'm a bad friend

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    10. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      11. you can learn to let go of your meanings about others' emotions as well, and just sit with their emotion and help them sit with it too. this may involve doing some work on your own about e.g. your insecurities around being a bad friend

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      QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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      12. it's actually not helpful to hold onto things like "i have to be sad when my friend is sad", it leads to other people holding things like "i can't tell my friend i'm sad because i'll make them sad and that'll hurt them"

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        2. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          13. what people want is *attunement*, which is hard to describe and hard to pin down and most people don't even have the word for it so they talk about other stuff that's nearby but not really it. attunement means you are *with them* in the emotion

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        3. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          14. a nearby thing that some people do is just feeling the emotion because the other person is feeling it; this is more properly termed "not having emotional boundaries" and while it is kinda cool as a kinda psychic power it's also a pain in the ass if you don't know how to stop

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        4. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          15. the term of art for this is "highly sensitive person" if you want to look up more although i haven't looked at that literature in detail and worry about it

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        5. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          16. it can actually be dangerous to start looking at your own emotions in too much detail if you also have a strong inner critic; sometimes you just end up finding more stuff to criticize about yourself. in this situation prioritize working with the inner critic itself first

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        6. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          (intermission; feel free to ask questions about any of this! also keep in mind that i'm not a trained professional and am just some guy yammering about my opinions based on my specific experiences)

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        7. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          17. this is turning into a thread about just straight up emotional regulation not just self-regulation and i'm okay with that; other-regulation and group regulation are super important topics and i wanna talk about them

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        8. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          18. i want to say more clearly that a lot of these tweets are coming from a strong sense that people's individual and group relationships to emotions could be so, so, so much better than they are. shit is ludicrously bad compared to what i've seen is possible

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        9. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          19. and, it's not all upside, there are genuine risks to making groups more emotionally open, a lot of which have to do with severely traumatized people and people with personality disorders (not a huge fan of that term but it's pointing at a real and important phenomenon)

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        10. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          20. one thing that can get out of hand is that emotional openness can release strong feelings of affection and intimacy that many people only know how to interpret romantically / sexually and that can cause lots of problems if people don't know how to sit with those also

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        11. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          21. there's a lot to learn about learning how to sit with strong feelings of attraction without needing them to mean anything (e.g. "omg soulmates!") or needing to act on them (e.g. "omg i have to ask you out now!"); you can learn to just enjoy their raw energy

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        12. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          22. one of the most important practical lessons about strong emotions about other people is that they're often much more about you than about them. you fall for someone b/c they remind you of an ex; you hate someone b/c they remind you of an ex; projection is extremely real

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        13. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          23. important subexample of projection: if you've ever felt suspiciously strong desires to win the approval of somebody, especially a mentor kinda figure but even a romantic partner, consider the possibility that you're projecting a parent onto them

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        14. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          24. by the way 20-23 are all lessons i learned from chaotic and messy personal experience and i bet i have a ton more lessons to learn, i am not above any of this

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        15. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          25. gonna switch topics for a bit to tackling specific emotions. let's start with anger, i have a lot of trouble with that one. many of us judge ourselves for getting angry and/or are afraid of our anger because we don't want to be like our angry parents (in my case my dad)

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        16. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          26. but anger properly worked with is extremely important. as @Meaningness says, anger is the stagnant form of clarity. i don't claim to know everything he means by that, but in my experience anger is a path to understanding what you care about and are wiling to protectpic.twitter.com/txfAL3998J

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        17. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          27. anger transformed into clarity can be beautiful. people's voices can ring out. they can become extremely articulate. some people, remembering how their parents yelled at them, can't imagine an angry voice feeling good, but anger transformed into clarity feels *good* to hear

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        18. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          28. if you want to try exploring your relationship to anger, you can try a sentence stem completion: complete a sentence like "if i get angry then that means..." as many times as you can, letting the sentence complete itself w/o thinking, and see what comes out and what resonates

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        19. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          29. there's a kind of person who puts a lot of effort into suppressing and disowning their anger and those kinds of people may find that an anger release exercise (e.g. yelling and punching the air somewhere isolated) can do even more than crying can to help them come alive

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        20. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          30. and, there's also an opposite pattern of getting addicted to anger and lashing out. this also gets into the distinction between anger and rage and hatred. i think there's a kind of person who only knows how to set boundaries using hatred and this is really very unfortunate

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        21. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          31. there's a connection to be made here between learning how to sit with and work with anger and disarming the culture war, but i'll leave it as an exercise to the reader so we don't get too far off track from the topic of emotional regulation

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        22. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          32. if you find yourself feeling a ton of anger and not knowing what to do with it you can try exploring why that anger feels necessary. i think it's often something like "because [these people] need to understand how badly they hurt me" but unfortunately it mostly doesn't work

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        23. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          33. i find that often when i'm feeling anger at somebody or something in particular it's because i'm blaming them for some kind of suffering, and that when i can really take in that blaming them doesn't accomplish anything good the anger gives way to grief

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        24. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          34. i think the reason anger gives way to grief there is that the anger gets tied up with a desire that the past be different, which is impossible; and once i recognize that and really accept it, i grieve for the past as it was and will always be

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        25. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          35. (what can change about the past, though, is your relationship to it: the meaning you make of the past is always up for grabs, and this is a subtle but important distinction. things definitely happened but who knows what they meant, really?)

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        26. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          36. i really wish i had separated out this anger thing into its own thread so i could add stuff to it later but too late, switching to fear now fear is a tricky one for me to talk about because i bet other people (women, PoC) experience a hell of a lot more of it than i do

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        27. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          37. i am lucky enough to not feel or be in actual physical danger hardly ever, and i am *still* often crippled by fear, esp. of rejection my fear feels "young" to me; feels like it comes from the youngest parts of me still afraid of my parents or teachers or the other kids

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        28. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          38. in my experience fear is often being suppressed by shame. it's depressingly common to be shamed for being afraid of things growing up and that shit sticks hard. it really sucks b/c meanwhile fear can genuinely be such a valuable indicator that something might be actually bad

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        29. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          39. it can be really valuable to pay attention to subtle fears you have about other people in particular, esp. people you feel like you have no obvious reason to be afraid of; that can be an indicator you're picking up on subtle but real emotional stuff in them

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        30. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          40. (or it could be projection, or a mix of both, none of this stuff is hard-and-fast) there just are people out there who are fucked up and will hurt you if you get close to them and do a good job disguising this on paper; it's okay to be afraid of them w/o a legible reason

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        31. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan 14. pro 2019.
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          41. a lot of what i work with in clients and myself is fear of the internal world generally. people are so afraid of their own minds and bodies. there's so much pain and trauma there that we weren't taught how to look at. breaks my goddamn heart. so much more is possible here!

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