QC

hey apropos of absolutely nothing what would it take for me, personally, to become mark zuckerberg's personal coach / therapist / shaman

people are mostly using it as an opportunity to make fun of him but the robotic / lizard-person quality of his appearance and esp. his face is a trauma / emotional suppression symptom and he could look 1000% more human if he cried into my arms for a week

https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1187186376371888128 …

one thing i'm really confused about: why does trauma even exist in the first place? are we just so far out of the ancestral env that trauma is almost always bad now? if not, what trauma should we hold on to??

i asked @Malcolm_Ocean a version of this question once and he responded with a hypothesis by @DavidDeutschOxf that basically we have ancestral trauma that is good at reproducing itself (in a cycles of abuse kind of way) but not necessarily good for its individual human hosts

which frankly is one of the most terrifying things i've ever heard and really put the entire history of human civilization in a new light. this has been haunting me, honestly

oh, i forgot an important component, more specifically the claim (IIRC) is that one of the main ways a collection of cultural memes stays stable over time is by traumatizing its hosts into stifling their creativity so they don't fuck with the memes

it's easy to think of trauma as a thing that is like intrinsically bad but from this standpoint the main point is that trauma keeps your responses to situations relatively fixed. so trauma-based culture cannot keep up with rapidly accelerating technological and cultural change