“MY MAIN WORK TOOL: MYSELF” AAAAAAAAAAAAAHhttps://twitter.com/syswarren/status/1177207445556518913 …
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in fact, getting better at self-care might make the problem worse, by staving off the crisis that would cause you to seriously reflect on how you relate to "work" as a source of meaning, validation, etc.
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this has been a theme of my thoughts lately, how lots of advice is about improving coping mechanisms in a way that delays crisis, and how this isn't obviously good in the long run kinda think people would be better off having crises as quickly as they have the resources for
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@utotranslucence said once that she didn't trust anybody who hadn't gone through at least 3 crises and i think there's a lot to that, especially in the choice of 3 specifically after your 1st or 2nd crisis you might think you're done but after #3 you're like "oh. i see."Show this threadThanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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Relatedly, I once heard somebody mention 'positive disintegration' where when you break down and reassemble in a different configuration, that's like, progress but for your soul
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I think this has long been one of
@vgr's main themes: have your crises as early and as often as you can (https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2015/12/17/we-are-all-architects-now/ …) -
crash early, crash often compiles all my posts on this theme in one volume.https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2017/07/13/crash-early-crash-often/ …
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I highly recommend it
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@vgr wrote a thing on this once heyThanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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Romantic relationship advice comes to my mind
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