anyone thinking seriously about how to redesign dating? i think it's pretty clear that 1) modern dating is super broken and 2) finding people healthy long-term romantic relationships is one of the best things we could do for them so let's fix it already
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random topic to get started: i don't see anywhere in modern dating that you get strong positive signals of trustworthiness. many people are substituting trustworthiness = you have the same ideology as me, and this has nothing to do with trustworthiness
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Replying to @QiaochuYuan
One new thing about modern dating is publically available histories of thought. It's now easy to find mutual friends and ask them for opinions on a person. Longstanding public personas makes being a jerk more costly--starting over is harder.
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maybe there should be a date where you scroll back on each other's facebook feeds or twitter profiles until you can't stand the embarrassment anymore 
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