anyone thinking seriously about how to redesign dating? i think it's pretty clear that 1) modern dating is super broken and 2) finding people healthy long-term romantic relationships is one of the best things we could do for them so let's fix it already
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so, taking that train of thought seriously: given that we don't have villages, how might we redesign dating to produce honest signals of trustworthiness? my first thought is to add more stress: do harder stuff together sooner, e.g. take a class, do a hard escape room or sth
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second thought is to pull in other people: meet each others' friends and parents sooner, hear all the gossip. relationship is not a 2-player game; if a relationship is gonna go anywhere it needs to be embedded in a shared community, so make that explicit in the process
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this on point tweet from
@david_perell goes in here somewhere, h/t@tasshinfogleman:https://twitter.com/david_perell/status/1041829822287233029 …Show this thread -
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That cuts back another way. People you've known since childhood. Having your mental model of yourself and them be at that stage when you are around them.
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