I grew up watching TV shows and movies where overtly sexual men were the villains. I learned that male sexuality - my sexuality - was fundamentally hurtful to women, and that in order to earn the love of a woman I needed to be a perfect gentleman instead. So I tried that.
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Ah, nuts, it's gone. I don't remember the wording but I quoted a tweet that said something like "young men need to learn that their #1 job is to respect women" and responded "this doesn't work, it is actually not good for either men or women" and someone asked me to clarify.