There's some kind of awful toxoplasmosis life cycle thing going on with trauma and ideology. Trauma begets ideologies to make sense of it, and those ideologies form communities in which everyone is actually actively reinforcing each other's trauma, I think in several ways. Oof.
Yes, of course. The full dynamics are more than I can fit into a tweet. The genuine connections that do form are the channels by which the subtle trauma reinforcing stuff happens. And... at any given point, it may not be safe to look at this, for any given person.
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Some of these communities are aware of some of these dynamics; e.g. tumblr's use of "crabs in a bucket." Here's a pretty solid description: https://queerly-tony.tumblr.com/post/183062767388/make-sure-the-community-you-are-part-of-is-lifting …
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Sure, I figured you knew - but I was a little alarmed to see the problem carved up into "this is horrible" without acknowledging why it's happening or what people get out of it.
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That's fair; it's a background assumption of mine, that I don't always foreground, that people only do things that make sense to them, cf.:https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1146496213358915585 …
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I saw this article and thought of you and this conversation:https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/26/style/instagram-therapists.html?fbclid=IwAR36fbGIX_wvMH4Ai-75wWx0bomUY2XDQQ_yE8gOspZIBC4bMepRI3KoHTw …
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Kinda into this! I've thought for awhile that the whole "go to therapy" meme, while probably useful, doesn't scale enough (also I want communities skilled enough to heal themselves). Therapists-on-social-media might scale.
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