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apparently i am now the emotions + buddhist shitposting guy

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    1. Matt Goldenberg‏ @mattgoldenberg Jun 18
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      Matt Goldenberg Retweeted Weston Edwards

      Circling/Authentic relating is great, AND this is one of the key traps that some of the rationalists seem to fall into when translating it... they express their emotions verbally as a crutch, and therefore miss out on important skills needed for vibing. https://twitter.com/mattgoldenberg/status/1134195941555286016 …https://twitter.com/alifeofmovement/status/1140779022269349888 …

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      Weston Edwards @alifeofmovement
      7) Generally, I want the emotion you are experiencing now in this moment when reflecting on the story. This may be very different than the emotions experienced in the past. But they are the most relevant to me because it tells me about how things matter to you right now.
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    2. Matt Goldenberg‏ @mattgoldenberg Jun 18
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      There is a certain move in Yin circling that tries to correct for this: the ever present refrain of "I can't feel you." The problem with this move is it serves as a crutch for the listener of an equally important skill - feeling emotions through repression and inexpressiveness.

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    3. Jonathan Dubin‏ @jondubin Jun 18
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      "I can't feel you." Damn. Mentioned drawbacks aside, I could see this being sooooo powerful in some types of connection/conversation. [Also, what's Yin circling? Didn't find much on Google]

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    4. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan Jun 18
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      I think Matt just means taking a yin orientation towards circling. "I can't feel you" is one of the first things someone said to me in a circle and it was really eye-opening. Good stuff.

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    5. Jonathan Dubin‏ @jondubin Jun 18
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      ahh i see! thanks yeah, looking back, there are some conversations where hearing that would have absolutely blown me to pieces (in a good way). now i'm wondering: ok so how can i get ahead of that, or call it out myself?

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      QC‏ @QiaochuYuan Jun 18
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      Replying to @jondubin @mattgoldenberg

      notice when you can't feel other people and then check if it's a projection 😛

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        2. Jonathan Dubin‏ @jondubin Jun 18
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          ahh i meant when i'm on the "not emoting" side. i've found myself in situations recently where i'm stuck in the mind in a way that's not good for connection. problematically i usually notice too late. i guess being more sensitive to this and starting to notice live is the answer!

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        3. QC‏ @QiaochuYuan Jun 18
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          Yeah, that's what I meant too! You can also ask the people around you to call you out on this. For myself I mostly do this by paying attention to the quality of my voice: does it sound relaxed or rushed, smooth or jerky, etc.

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