None of us can escape nonconsensual power relationships. We did not and could not have chosen to be born to our parents, who in turn could not have avoided exerting power over us if they wanted to raise us at all. Those of us who have children will be in that position too.https://twitter.com/KatMurti/status/1133425127033638914 …
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QC Retweeted Yoram Hazony
The dream of being able to make decisions starting from a place of total non-coercion by default is an atomized vision of what it means to be human in relation with other humans, and it does not actually work. See:https://twitter.com/yhazony/status/1130584533391355906 …
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Yoram Hazony @yhazonyThis theory was invented by men who did live more or less this way. But anyone who has raised children knows this theory isn’t true. I’m not free to choose my children and they aren’t free to choose me. Very often obligation has little or nothing to do with consent.Show this thread2 replies 2 retweets 10 likesShow this thread -
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Thinking that power is the problem, or even power exercised nonconsensually, doesn't work either. It just incentivizes you to lie to yourself (and then others) about the ways in which you have and exert power.
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"Without power, it is impossible to accomplish anything. Power makes it possible to benefit others, and to change the world for the better." -
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I imagine all of this was obvious to previous generations; that it's not now is a manifestation of trauma that we now have around our families and around power, which can and must be healed if we want to raise children and take on the mantle of power ourselves.
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Malcolm 🙃cean Retweeted Malcolm 🙃cean
Related to former obviousness of power-dynamics:https://twitter.com/Malcolm_Ocean/status/1069635628655091712 …
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Wow, turns out the etymology of "merci" is fascinating. It is cognate with "mercy" but the Latin root "merces" means "wages, fee, price" so it's also cognate with "merchandise"! As in, showing mercy = taking on the price of what you did wrong?
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Hmm, seems that link is something about heavenly reward earned by showing kindness to the helpless. (etymology of thank ~= reward as well) https://www.etymonline.com/word/mercy#etymonline_v_14664 …
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Malcolm 🙃cean Retweeted Introspectah
See also this translation of the french etymologie, from my earlier threadhttps://twitter.com/Introspectah/status/1074697536701644805 …
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Introspectah @IntrospectahReplying to @Malcolm_Ocean @danielharan and 2 othersEtymology of Merci: From old French "merchi" "mercid" "mierchi" "marchi" meaning: favour, service, mercy, grâce, clemency, benevolence. From Latin "mercedem" [note of mine: mercredi being french for Wednesday, possibly symbolising the day of retribution]0 replies 0 retweets 1 like
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