Okay, time to be a really cool kid, my very first thread of threads (sup @visakanv and @Malcolm_Ocean): threads about relationships, consent, sex, love, romance, attachment, etc.
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Also I have written some blog posts about these topics, most of which haven't found their way into a thread yet:https://thicketforte.com/tag/relationships/ …
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Thread about consent (the tool) vs. participation (the thing the tool is trying to achieve):https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1113562127426510848 …
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Thread about having compassion for incels:https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1115461926098616320 …
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Thread arguing that "what other people do in the privacy of their bedrooms is their own business" is a bad argument for sexual tolerance:https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1115716912917372929 …
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Thread (sort of, tweet + replies) about relationships ending because of accruing debt (most of the content is in others' replies, look for
@utotranslucence's particularly):https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1125219970424532994 …Show this thread -
Thread about status-seeking as a response to social instability, and redirecting that towards cultivating committed relationships:https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1127439358934433792 …
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Thread about why people might get worse at relationships over time instead of better:https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1128396382383923200 …
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Thread about my changing experience of masculinity:https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1138936401376845825 …
I grew up watching TV shows and movies where overtly sexual men were the villains. I learned that male sexuality - my sexuality - was fundamentally hurtful to women, and that in order to earn the love of a woman I needed to be a perfect gentleman instead. So I tried that.
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Thread about redesigning dating:https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1150883206557646848 …
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I guess you have heard of the Wheel of Consent by Dr Betty Martin? The seemingly simple theory changed my life, its application still being used in everyday interaction.
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Heard a little about it, sounds like good stuff.
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