I have gotten a lot less surprised that romantic relationships end, over the last 2 years. It feels like the default outcome a lot more than it used to. Something like, I now expect most relationships to accrue debt over time that people don't know how to pay off.
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Ok I got nerdsniped by this q - here's the answer in a blog post:https://autotranslucence.wordpress.com/2019/05/07/emotional-waste-collection-the-care-and-feeding-of-relationship-intimacy/ …
