I have gotten a lot less surprised that romantic relationships end, over the last 2 years. It feels like the default outcome a lot more than it used to. Something like, I now expect most relationships to accrue debt over time that people don't know how to pay off.
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Also, writing about emotional skills I use on a daily basis reminds me how profoundly complicated they all are. Every few sentences I wanted to back up and say: 'well, actually if you have this emotional pattern you should take the opposite advice; also here's a book to read.'
Yeahhhh. I keep trying to explain the stack I'm using and there's really just a lot of detail. Like, telling people to have more feelings doesn't work unless I also talk about unblending, subject-object shifts, working with trauma...
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If you had to list the top 5 books/articles people should read to understand your relationship stack, what would you pick?
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