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Have you read @visakanv 's description of relationships needing "waste elimination systems"?https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1029920952258154496 …
I have gotten a lot less surprised that romantic relationships end, over the last 2 years. It feels like the default outcome a lot more than it used to. Something like, I now expect most relationships to accrue debt over time that people don't know how to pay off.
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Nice! Although I wouldn't want to use that terminology myself; think it predisposes people to thinking of e.g. bad feelings as "waste" in a way that I think is pretty counterproductive to doing the actual good thing (although I think you'd agree too).
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Interesting — any thoughts as to how to pay off these debts?
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@alexjuiceman: - work on your emotional baggage (together and solo) - prioritize emotional composting (you will know it is done when you both want to do something deeply connected without analyzing) - practice noticing when something is wrong, & having the courage to say it - 2 more replies
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Curious to hear more of your model here.
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Romantic relationships always need work from both parties to maintain in the long run. If noone puts in the work, things peter out in a year or two once the initial trust credit is spent.
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