A lot of the good things I've gotten in my life have come from times when instead of personally setting the boundaries of what I deserve (or not) or what I'm good enough for (or not), I've gone out on a limb and decided to let other people set those boundaries for me (in a sense)
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Simple example, say there's someone I want to get to know better who I want to hang with. Shift from: nope they definitely don't want to hang with me for imagined reason Y, maybe I'm not cool enough or something to you know what, I'll just ask and let them make that decision
That makes sense but I wouldn't describe it as letting them set your boundary? In the "imagined reason Y" scenario it's like you assumed that they have a boundary, and in the other scenario you're actually checking.
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Ahh right. Yeah I guess it's moreso letting them set their boundaries (in a broad sense of the word boundary) versus me setting them on their behalf. Maybe boundary isn't the perfect concept here either
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