when you get angry, people tell you that you need to calm down. this is incorrect. what you need is to learn to act sensibly while angry, especially in disregarding the social scripts provided to you for acting it out, and to harness the energy your anger is providing you
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however, if the angry person is just in screaming mode, it may be necessary to point out that screaming prevents useful interaction, appeal to need for self regulation, and provide opportunity to calm down and/or switch context
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Nicely said. The grieving process involves something like: >< Express the anger by communicating who/what was harmed/threatened << Try to explain how it effected plans <> Reconnect to deeper ideals to form new, more realistic, plans >> Clarify needs for moving forward
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