It seems to be a bad idea to me to deliberately inflate the self esteem of children. If they are smart they notice the gaslighting, if they are not they develop impostor syndrome. Both undermines their ability to properly judge and regulate their relationship to the world.
I don’t think that effort matters. Skill minimizes effort while maximizing results. Maximizing effort is a cargo cult (attention and self regulation are not).
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Think about how your mind does it internally when you are lucid.
End of conversation
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