It's really hard for those of us who are still in the closet. If I told people I'm "she/her" then I'd out myself before I'm ready. But if I told people I'm "he/him," I'd be actively encouraging people to call me by the wrong pronouns / stoke my dysphoria. It's a real struggle.
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In other words, I *don't* want people to ask me my pronouns, because at this point in my transition, telling people my pronouns is a lose-lose situation. It's easier to just let people make assumptions about me / maintain what they already know about me.
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Yes & don't stop at just asking about their Pronouns !! Ask all of your Qs that you want answered. Don't be surprised or react in anger if you go into Gay or Lesbian Bars & you get addressed with He/Him or She/Her. People can't read minds. Single & dating
Married/SO
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