It really is perilously close to a conversion narrative if you suggest that lesbians ought to be open to the idea of having sex with people with penises. Sexual attraction is (almost always) embodied. It's not directed at another person's perception of their own identity.https://twitter.com/fairplaywomen/status/1137624393251733504 …
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Yes, I understand how the argument by redefinition is going to work. But even if I accept it, which I don't, it doesn't matter. Once you grant that gay men, for example, ought to be open to vaginas in their sex life, you've made the first move in a conversion narrative. 1/
The fact that you might turn around & say, Ah yes, but it's not a conversion argument, coz we're talking abt trans men's vaginas, we're not saying gay men should become straight men, doesn't alter the fact you've made the first move (i.e, that we can change genitalia preference).