Deleting my kindness anecdote due to it being judged inappropriate cookie begging by some. #spanked #naughtymel
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Deleting your tweet suggests that you're not willing to be held accountable for your actions and and you're still only looking for cookies rather than taking this as an opportunity to listen and learn from marginalised voices who have taken the time to call you out
It takes a lot of patience to deal with this type of passive aggressive White feminism, Mel. It means your allyship is conditional, so long as you're not inconvenienced by WOC pointing out the hurtful patterns you maintain. Rethink this entire interaction.
