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I love when people act like it's some kind of outrageous suggestion that sex should be reserved for being in a relationship with someone. Hookups and porn clearly play too big a role today, and are really harming people's capacity to build relationships with other humans https://t.co/aF616dCu5d 

Yes, keep it in your pants until you enter a monogamous relationship. This is not just about men, either. This is about all of us. The ages that kids are seeing porn, and the kinds of violent porn especially that profligate, already cause immeasurable harm

Casual sex would probably be more fun if it became a risque kind of behaviour again, too.

Perhaps the more academic papers one writes about all this, the more theoretical and less possible it becomes, to the point at which the most pro-sex academic is essentially incel or volcel or some such thing