hmmm whats a case where this fails for you? trying to make the objection a bit more concrete to myself
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Replying to @eigenrobot
a really anodyne example is that I swear about 5x more than any of my colleagues
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Replying to @sonyasupposedly
lmao i explicitly asked our common link person what the optimal amount of swearing is at $CurrentWorkplace to optimize my persona
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Replying to @eigenrobot
this feels like such a class thing to me which is weird because I "should" be part of the swearing-not-so-much class, and sort of want to be, but actually am not
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Replying to @sonyasupposedly @eigenrobot
swearing, and taboos against swearing are good, but only when they come in that pairing they are good because they provide an opportunity for someone to demonstrate their ability to (a) understand contextual clues (b) engage in extremely mild self censorship >>>
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if someone can not moderate their swearing in a professional situation, if they are an outlier and swear much more than others, it proves that they are defective in either understanding contexts, or in very mild self censorship in service to business goals this is excellent info
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it's notable that every single culture has tabooed words it seems insanely unlikely that this would happen unless where was a Very Good Reason
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ⓘ Dogs don't have thumbs Retweeted eigenrobot
I'll bet you that it was context dependent; that they did it amongst themselves, but not in front of the group X or Yhttps://twitter.com/eigenrobot/status/1492961006229671936 …
ⓘ Dogs don't have thumbs added,
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Replying to @MorlockP @sonyasupposedly
one common use of cussing is to mildly violate norms to establish a deeper social bond
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Another is to provide a means of special emphasis. "I, who do not normally swear in this setting, am doing so; that implies I feel especially strongly about what I am saying."
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100% agreed you create boundaries so that you can then have expensive signalling
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im not sure its necessarily about class, maybe more about subculture?
i once went out with some C-level executives from a Huge firm and they cussed nonstop