imo the common unstated thing that is missed when people look at this from a perspective of trying to blame just men or just women is that most people suck and anyone of either gender who has high standards is gonna take a long time to find someone they feel is worth commiting to
-
-
It doesn't work for everyone for a variety of reasons but I do think polyamory as a hack does a decent amount to let people extract happiness without needing to find the perfect first.
-
I'm not going to say what is or is not true for other people, bc how would I know ... but I have seen a decent handful of poly relationships that seemed exploitative based on a power (SMV) asymmetry and I worry that it could create worse outcomes bc of local optima traps
- Show replies
New conversation -
Loading seems to be taking a while.
Twitter may be over capacity or experiencing a momentary hiccup. Try again or visit Twitter Status for more information.