do men know how attractive they are when they're intensely focused on a project
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Replying to @lunavis
yeah that's not the thing the thing is to exhibit *other interests* and *actually* value your sovereignty over your attention allocation rather than just signaling it
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I sometimes wonder if "playing hard to get" is the incorrect feminine intuition of something similar "value your own time and your own standards, don't make your happiness dependent on jumping when they say jump"
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advice givers: "actually become a valuable person and then signal it" people: "aha all I need to do is signal that I'm hard to please"
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Becoming Worthy took me 40 years
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