soy and passive aggressive in general calmly aggressive >>> passive aggressive much better: keep speaking, increasing your volume as needed to drown out the interrupterhttps://twitter.com/donmexlar/status/1266467853844316160 …
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2/ Not sure I follow. I also give the [ would be ] interrupter the opportunity to change their behavior...and, in fact, I strongly incentivize it. > raising one’s voice is not the solution {{citation needed}}https://twitter.com/donmexlar/status/1266473046099005441 …
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3/ One thing that has been well proven in studies is that the quicker training feedback is given, the more effective it is. This is why "clicker training" works with dogs: you can give them feedback INSTANTLY. >>>
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4/ When someone tries to speak over me, I don't want them to succeed at silencing me, say what they want to say, get the warm fuzzy feeling of having expressed themselves, and then get a very very small dose (PERHAPS !) of feedback 3 minutes later. >>>
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5/ I want them to learn INSTANTLY that their behavior is defective, does not work, does not give them the desired benefit, and DOES given them undesired repercussions. Also, "respecting the interrupter's dignity" is actively bad. It should NOT be respected.
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Replying to @MorlockP
negative reinforcement is neither better than positive reinforcement (punishment), nor worse: merely a different tactic. clearly, having both in one's arsenal is better than only having one.
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if someone is interrupting you specifically to get a rise out of you, raising your voice and talking over them is not punishment, but reward: the reinforcement generates the behavior you don't want. in which case, denying them that reward is effective.
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Replying to @djinnius
sure, but 99% of the interrupters I've met aren't trying to get a rise
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Replying to @MorlockP
that says something about the company you keep, probably good
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you know I'm "all about", as the kids say, exit if someone has psycopathic / dramatic tendencies, I cut them off immedately / leave
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