have recently lost the ability to make myself actually hang out with my friends. what's up with that
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I was supposed to meet up with a friend in SF today for lunch, haven't seen the guy in ages, genuinely want to catch up canceled at the last minute because I can't drag myself to the city, or maybe because I know that I can get away with not doing it? how motivation better????
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Replying to @sonyasupposedly
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you shouldn't try to make your motivation better; you should tell yourself that cancelling at the last minute because "you didn't feel like it" is unvirtuous bullshit, and a slap in the face to the guyhttps://twitter.com/MorlockP/status/1220791933884338178 …
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This is fair, and I will cop to it. But it's not particularly useful — I know this already, making myself behave in accordance is the hard ??? part
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>This is fair, and I will cop to it. It's not fair and don't cop to it, unless you truly feel that way. Don't beat yourself up over changing your mind, or you'll end up as miserable and bitter as Morlock.
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also don't overthink stuff
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I actually do agree with him though, I'm letting selfishness override obligations that I willingly assumed, and that's not okay.
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welcome to the pro-Civilization team, Sonya! We may not have milk and cookies, but we've got self respect and 3,000 years of beautiful tradition !
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