Depends on the social setting. Chilis? It's a family restaurant. Expect families, and expect families to do family things. Fancy place? Expect well-behaved people.
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well, you're catching up with my tweets from 25 minutes ago that's goodhttps://twitter.com/MorlockP/status/1200526403248242698 …
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ⓘ Dogs don't have thumbs @MorlockPReplying to @MorlockP @random_eddieso, yes, if I want to drop $100 on an expensive sushi dinner, my wife and I can avoid the loud / rude grandmother, but no $25 per person place should embrace a norm where sometimes kids make noise, but adults do not encourage it or make even louder noise2 replies 0 retweets 2 likes -
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but the bad thing is that you're not responding to it; you're just doubling down. "lower middle class people who can't afford to buy dining rooms populated by people with manners shouldn't get them" "the only way to have decent norms is to pay a tax"
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>the only way to have decent norms is to pay a tax The only way to have *your* norms is to pay a tax. Assuming they're "decent" is begging the question. Mine are decent, yours unfairly burden parents and grandparents.
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> unfairly expecting this one grandmother to act like all of the other grandmothers is unfair?
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We probably have rather different mental pictures of what transpired in the situation the OP was complaining about. You're probably picturing it much worse than it was, I'm probably picturing it much better than it was. +
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Accordingly, we probably are disagreeing about how egregious a violation of reasonable norms the situation was (given our different mental pictures) much more than we would disagree had we both witnessed the actual situation. +
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I suspect we have similar tolerances, and similar ranges for "reasonable", although absolutely mine are further towards "tolerate kids and the attendant circus that goes with them" than yours are. But probably not as far apart as they seem here on twitter.
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as a retrospective on this thread, there are two intertwined topics 1) what should the Overton window for behavior X in location Y be 2) how do we avoid having minority X converge EVERY. SINGLE. LOCATION Y to their norm Z ? >>>
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this is a fight I get into with Browning Machine. He's an ADHD extrovert and loves Glorious Freedom Noise, so revving jet ski engines, stereos pounding so loud that people at other farms can hear him, the thrill of doing 120 on roads with 40 mph speed limits are all great >>>
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when I criticize him for, say, the jetski noise, he says "but in this community EVERYONE loves jetski noises!" ...and then tells a story 15 minutes later about how some neighbor was yelling at him for making too much noise. so, apparently, no, everyone doesn't but then >>>
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his stance shifted to "well, OK, these are the norms here, and if people don't like it, they should move". ...and then he came up to HUN, rented a sports car, and violated the speed limit by 3x, and when I called him on it he said that (a) people in New England are pussies
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