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Need advice for a friend. Guy has some depression, might like talking to a therapist, but last time he tried all the therapists he found were SJWs. "Oh, you're a privilege white male? Maybe you SHOULD feel bad!" How should my fren go about finding a therapist who won't SJW?
(not giving out his location for opsec, so what's the general purpose strategy?)
3/ There's a lot to this, but also priests and pastors are stretched really thin these days.https://twitter.com/giacomozucco/status/1176912132606189568 …
4/ Getting good answers via back channels, so I'm posting here so not only Fren #1, but any other frends who need help will see it. Advice from various corners: * look for a therapist who calls himself "Christian" or "traditional" * look for "Cognitive Behavioral Therapy"
5/ Let's assume that our fren is in a purple location, so there are both good and bad around. https://twitter.com/octal/status/1176913188950085634 …
6/ I think this is good advice, but I also think that for some people therapy is maybe good. https://twitter.com/AetiusRF/status/1176913449047212032 …
7/ "But doctor, I AM <in search of a tradwife>" Seriously, tho, telling a guy "to stop being depressed, just get all the things you want and which depressions is stopping you from getting" is ... uh ... not helpful. https://twitter.com/AidanMaclear/status/1176913481540542464 …
8/ From what I understand, some large percent of therapists are in the "let's talk <forever> about your bad decisions", but some are in the "lifecoach" business. I'm trying to help my fren find the latter. https://twitter.com/rdancer/status/1176913937939320834 …
10/ OK, guys, I'm going to ask for a moratorium on "all therapy is feces, LOL" and "you just have to work up to squatting 500 lbs for reps and then you won't be sad" etc as advice. If fren could just get a tradwife / drag himself to gym / etc., he would. Time & place, gents
13/ CBT is pulling WAYYYYY out ahead !https://twitter.com/MorlockP/status/1176910482705387520 …
18/ One fren writes: "When it came to the therapist, I also purposely chose a woman. I had enough self-awareness to realize I was lonely for adult woman interaction and this provided it in a structured professional context >>>
19/ >>> that helped alleviate that feeling without the possibility of really fucking shit up."
20/ Hey Anon (my original fren). Tons of people in DMs etc thinking about you, want you to know you're not alone. Hang in there, bro. We're pulling for you.
22/ DM: I wanted to give a personal endorsement for CBT from someone who was a therapy skeptic, received CBT, and found it very effective. As a technical person the goal-oriented nature of the approach appealed to me.
27/ SUPER IMPORTANT !!!! https://twitter.com/Inquisitor1124/status/1176934877444399106 …
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So the message is clear:
* get your self a Christian kink-positive therapist
* don't get a therapist, go to your pastor
* don't go to a pastor, just read some books and CBT yourself
* skip those gay books and just squat heavy and get a tradwife
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