100% agreed! There is no need for my socialcon stance to cause any problems w your extropian/gay/perv stance. We work on code together, I do the DB layer, you do the UI layer, and we only talk about work. A CoC that makes us all agree on sexual politics is retarded.
I don't know many other people in the 60/30/10 group, so I don't know if we have traditions or not ; certainly none to rival what I take are your tribe's.