walk away. A woman who wants to be your “friend “ or “let’s just be friends “ is setting you up to be used as an attention presenter. She doesn’t have s bf, doesn’t want you as one but still wants your attention and “shoulder to cry on.” If you have any self respect, walk away.
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Being able to risk “losing her” shows confidence and moral strength. Women find it attractive. The “let’s be friends “ line is a test of your confidence. Many guys think that if you’re friends first, that they have a better chance than simply making their interest known. Nope. It
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Usually when I’m attracted to a girl and want to date, my interest from the get-go is to at some point be more than friends
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comes off as manipulative. As if you were lying the entire time, just to get close to her. To her mind you can’t be trusted. Being “friends first “ only benefits her as she gets your attention and protection but if you make your intentions known later she can fall back on
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plausible deniability. It gives her an emotional out for the situation and she can blame you for putting her in that situation because you lied about your intentions. So, make your intentions known. If she says no then walk away from the relationship. She could change her mind
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later but don’t accept the “friends first “ line. When women go on dates do they ask the man if he wants to be friends first ? Nope. Never once. Don’t be a chump. Stand up for yourself and be clear about your intentions.
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How do you reconcile that with spouses saying they’re each other’s best friend? My mom said that about my dad all the time, and they were married 36 years, only ending because he died.
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They became friends after the relationship was started.
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