My marital partner was morally corrupt and her betrayal and bad faith was quite a bit more than just boring old infidelity. But, and this is key, I was more or less boundaryless the *whole* time. That is neither excuse nor forgiveness. Just a warning for younger men.
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Thankfully I've learned this lesson before marriage.
Hey sorry, what does boundaryless mean in this context? Is it like Ben Franklins both eyes opened before one eye half closed after marriage advice?
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Good question. Idk. Maybe like “omg I totally disagree with what you just said or are doing but can we talk about this,” vs just giving in and saying “ok, u can abandon me and kids for 12 years for your ambition and I’ll cover stuff forever...”
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Oof. I don't like either of those responses. Gotta be tougher than that, imho.
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If you have to set a rule like that, you might as well just get a divorce now.
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