Am I the only person not here for ??? It’s superficial and unrealistic. Like as an ACTUAL PRO DOMME I’m SO OVER mainstream portrayals of BDSM that erase risk aware and trauma informed care / consent. We are not one dimensional / not heartless. We are caretakers.
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I would rather just not have a show about BDSM & Domination than one that perpetuates misconceptions and stigma. I’m tireddd. Fucking screen your clients, learn actual bondage techniques, and communicate. Cast actual sex workers instead of just taking & distorting our stories
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Also, y’all can’t find more than one person of color to be in shows??????
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And I get so tired of client shaming and pathologizing. There is often so much thought, complexity, intention and fear behind the decision to see a Pro Domme. Again, we are not one dimensional, and our clients aren’t either.
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Also also ALSO they’re running the twitter profile as if it was an actual domme. My *actual* Instagram for My *actual* job and livelihood as an *actual* Domme got shut down. Sex workers outchea getting accounts shadowbanned and deleted left and right.
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If y’all gonna come steal our work and stories, not hire or at least consult actual swrkers, and perpetuate harmful stereotypes that cost lives, the LEAST you can do is start fighting for decriminalization. It’s all fun and games until it’s time to be an actual accomplice
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My BDSM exposure is limited to Kushiel’s Dart, Rice’s Beauty books, & Tiffany Reisz, and even I could tell it was super problematic.
In the preview, when the dude said “why don’t you tell me what we’re doing?” and she replies “if I told you, you wouldn’t do it” I was all NOPE.
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i have seen nothing but side eye and hate for this show thus far from porn twitter. we are nonplussed.
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