Trying to assume responsibility for the feelings of people around you is a somewhat paranoid and totalitarian impulse—but it is reasonable to be paranoid if you have been constantly punished for not having to control other people’s emotions.https://twitter.com/Meta_Aesthetic/status/1262155229803409409?s=20 …
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In hindsight, all my attempts to keep the emotions of those around me in line only served to keep them in emotional immaturity and stagnation. Ex: Dad doesn’t have to learn to keep a handle on his temper if that emotional labor has been outsourced to his children.
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But in this sort of relationship, no one feels truly empowered and independent, and no one is satisfied. It's always hard to process and write through this sort of material, but I can see that there's another way, and try to act better with the people around me.
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