Am I the only person who worries about calculating how much contribution or worth they bring to an interaction, in order to justify the opportunity cost incurred by other people spending time with me? maybe? okay
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I default to this terrible commodified view of relationships, which has been a slog to work through, but I suppose such fundamental constructs always take a long time to dissolve.
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this makes sense. I definitely get the feeling of wanting to prove yourself worthy of love to doing well. it's not a great view for an adult, but for a kid that shit is brutal. I think the absence of feeling wanted/appreciated otherwise is a big thing up investigate
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children shouldn't have to justify their existence. that's a very warped view of parenting. I think a lot of kids grow up with that when parents withdrawal emotionally and try to focus on "raising a child" like training. this leaves emotional neglect wounds
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