Melf  

@Melfyboom

you can call me Melf or Melfy or survivor of domestic abuse or a woman free from a raging narcissistic or anything nice 💛

Vrijeme pridruživanja: listopad 2017.

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  1. Prikvačeni tweet
    6. ruj 2019.

    Dear abusive ex, Note the lower case; you are not worth capital letters. Note the sarcasm of the word dear, dear. Note the omission of the personal pronoun ‘my’ - you are not my anything. Note the prefix ex - connotations of executioner. Note abusive - you. Note I’m alive 🥂 End

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    prije 7 sati
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    Let's av a femtra instead ;)

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    prije 24 sata

    Every few weeks I have to go where my rapist & abuser might be. Today is one of those days That he stole my sense of security & I suffer anxiety, panic attacks, reliving it daily that he just took what he wanted without consent that I'm Not OK

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  4. prije 7 sati

    Oh their dream of perfection is real.. an image painted in our minds; so better and so impossibly hopeful.. ..lovely dreams run through our hopeful possible minds. Until abuse sinks in with rotten teeth. Oh how sour the tricks, smokes and mirrors. Oh we suffer.

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  5. prije 15 sati

    At the end of a day. Then: challenge, quizzes, stonewalling, hooks, bait, tears, insomnia, guilt, effort, despair. Bridge: PSTD... you know... if you read this you know 💕 Now: relax, heal, deal, tend, mend, tv (guilt free tv!) cook, sleep, promise, hope, purpose.

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    prije 15 sati

    Resentment? Never. We're going to do this in the gentle way, where I let your energy to flip yourself and you fall exactly where I think you would be.

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  7. prije 16 sati

    A rainbow he saw in black and white Blue skies to stormy nights A wrong made from a right Sunsets into a fight Blame to feed his endless might Absorbing every beautiful light With emotions so cold and trite And now thankfully Mercifully Gratefully Out of sight.

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  8. prije 16 sati

    I bruised my leg today (happens, no big deal) and remembered this: Ex: you have bruises (cold flat intonation) Me: yup.. Ex: they look like sex bruises (silence, anger seething) Me: explaining bruises (worried, knowing, escalating panic) Ex: Stonewalling, gaslighting followed

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  9. prije 16 sati

    Institutions can have narcissistic cultures that follow all of the traits of an individual abuser. Same self care applies. No contact applies. Flying monkey no contact applies. Often we get embroiled with a narc on a personal level and our boundaries weaken in careers too.

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  10. prije 16 sati

    Narcissists have a dark dark thoughts of paranoia, mistrust and deviousness. They literally have irrational, self-serving and deviant thoughts. Thoughts become beliefs. Beliefs expressed in words. Words into actions. Dark souls with a bottomless abyss. Keep away. No contact.

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  11. prije 16 sati

    Had a really lovely thought: Thank god I am not in my past right now! Abusive people and situations are behind me. No more. No more. No more.

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    6. velj

    A will literally thrive in the creation of YOUR pain. Isn't that something? Another human being walking/talking/working/living right along side you... that secretly (& NOT so secretly) loves to see you suffer. THIS is quite the 'tell' of their dysfunction.

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  13. 6. velj

    Had my morning coffee under the Big Dipper! Good morning universe! Will add more self care into my morning routine 💕 Thanks for great ideas folks... rubbish internet right now so hoping to reply soon!

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  14. 6. velj

    Narcs are sour milk in luxury coffee. Everything sip ruined and the pain of how good it was meant to be. Spoiling each good memory of a place or event with abusive words and actions.

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  15. 5. velj

    Can I recommend for such amazing advice on dealing with a narcissistic abuser... in a relationship with someone who makes you feel like you’re walking on eggshells or dealing with the trauma of leaving one of these people. No contact advice that saved me many times 💕

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    5. velj
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    I think I could forgive for myself. What he did to others? What he still does? No, can’t manage that one.

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  17. 5. velj

    To err is to human; to forgive is divine An abuser is yet A whole new category to define...

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  18. 5. velj

    What is your morning routine for a serene and powerful start to the day?

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    3. velj
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    Buried feelings are important Melfy.... however there is no rush in dealing w/ them. Sometimes we'd just like to be CLEAR of everything... all the remaining scraps and scraggles (is that a word?) that may linger, but all in all, they too - are part of our journey.

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