I'm not saying I don't believe in platonic relationships but imo calling someone other than your spouse a spouse is a massive red flag. If it were truly platonic I'd have called her a bestie or something.
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Replying to @CAYMELIAO @AITA_reddit
Okay I like this. This makes sense to me. While I have friends that use the phrase and have never seen anything other than platonic friendship from it, but I can understand this as a red flag.
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If he was single would he be interested in his work wife? He clearly likes her personality and thinks she's a 10. He might be a good guy and would never cheat but this isn't healthy.
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Replying to @SyncopeSam @MeggGriffin and
It’s not healthy to have some amount of romantic interest in more than one person? That sounds pretty much impossible to satisfy.
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Replying to @AnonIV_Politics @SyncopeSam and
It is not healthy to gaslight your girlfriend by pretending to not have feelings for someone else and by acting like her insecurity is entirely her fault. And yeah, I'd say it's not healthy to be romantically interested in multiple people if you are in a monogamous relationship.
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Replying to @MeggGriffin @AnonIV_Politics and
Having a crush or finding someone's attractive? Sure. That's fine that's healthy. Being romantically interested? That's different.
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Replying to @MeggGriffin @SyncopeSam and
Is having a crush/finding someone attractive not the same as a romantic interest? What’s the difference?
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Replying to @AnonIV_Politics @SyncopeSam and
If you categorize that all as the same thing, cool. I don't. A crush is something I will get over as soon as something shiny crosses my path. Finding someone attractive can literally be me tracking a cute person on the subway or as I drive down the highway.
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Replying to @MeggGriffin @AnonIV_Politics and
Having romantic interest in someone implies I want to have a relationship with someone. Again. If it doesn't apply to you, cool. But that's the breakdown difference for me.
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Replying to @MeggGriffin @SyncopeSam and
Okay so you’re saying the difference is in your desire to act on an attraction. But saying you find someone attractive isn’t the same as saying you want to start a romantic relationship with them, right? Which the OP never did.
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I feel like you're wanting to argue semantics and try to catch me or the other commenter in some kind of gotcha and....I'm genuinely not interested.
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