Being rich or whatever doesn’t make you feel special in the way that matters. Your core self is actually just the same as those of ordinary people. Ordinary people may treat you as special, which is nice, but you know you aren't, and feel fake. This is unsatisfactory.
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You may come to realize that no mundane facts, no matter how extreme, could actually make you special; they’re just contingent. What you need is transcendent, metaphysical specialness. You need to be Chosen by the Cosmic Plan.
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(I'm working through the logic of this to make it clear; my guess is most people don't reason it out so explicitly. Instead they are likely to inherit the stance of specialness from parents or pick it up from works of fiction (where it's extremely common as fantasy fulfillment).)
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The problem here is that there is no Cosmic Plan, which makes it difficult for you to figure out exactly what it means for it to have Chosen you. One common way to try to make this work is to decide you have been given a special Mission:https://meaningness.com/purpose
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Another approach is to heighten your uniqueness by exaggerating eccentricities and character quirks and attributing Special Meaningfulness to them. Both these approaches are harmful, although they can motivate genuine & valuable accomplishments too.
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You can't create a Cosmic Plan, because you are human, material, and about two meters in your largest dimension, and the Cosmos is divine, metaphysical, and about 10^16 meters in its physical emanation. Unfortunately, it won't accept your Plan. Partly because it doesn't exist.
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You can create a plan for yourself, or for yourself and other people. That's a merely ordinary thing to do, though. It doesn't make you special, no matter how ambitious it is. Also, reality mostly doesn't cooperate with plans.
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When you realize trying to convince yourself that you are special doesn’t work, there’s several directions you can go. One is to try to be ordinary, which is also a bad idea.
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Better is to try to be “noble,” which means dropping the whole question of personal value and life-role, losing interest in the meaning of Me, and doing what you can to be useful for other people, for their sake, rather than for what it proves about Me.
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Why is doing things for others not also a kind of personal? What makes Others different in kind from Me?
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Sorry, my tweet about nobility was badly worded and/or too condensed. It could easily be misunderstood as "service to others is truly meaningful, whereas selfish motivations are not." That's a version of the confused stance of "mission."
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The central insight is that we're always trying to make things mean either more or less than they do, which doesn't work out well. The "confused stances" are a catalog of strategies for adding or subtracting meaning.
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"I am special because they aren't" is one. "Everybody's special, so collectively we are truly meaningful" is another. "My life is made meaningful by serving others"; "my life is meaningful because I'm getting all the goodies I can"; etc.
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