Turn your to-do list into a today list: 
I post about stuff I like more than about stuff I don't like. This leads me to other people who talk about stuff they like. This leads to friends, which is wealth and meaning. It's all so simple in my head. What am I missing re: why it's not so simple to others?
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as usual i’ll chip in with: trauma has a lot to do with it. simple ex. is people who got bullied for being honest about what they liked growing up and now feel unsafe talking about it trauma means people living in different worlds, made of the worst parts of their childhoods
My latest frame for this: everyone is basically living in a dream mashup of their current external situation and their old emotional meanings. Like dreaming you're at school but it's also on a boat somehow. & as in dreams, somehow the weirdness of this mashup goes unnoticed
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that's a very rich and evocative picture, nice
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Pete Walker has a great article about this phenomenon: > Because most emotional flashbacks do not have a visual or memory component to them, the triggered individual rarely realizes that she is re-experiencing a traumatic time from childhood. http://pete-walker.com/flashbackManagement.htm …
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Note that while he's talking about Complex PTSD, schools are prisons so basically everybody is actually traumatized quite a lot. In some dimensions this has gotten better; in others, worse:https://twitter.com/PeterNickeas/status/1196825154313236482 …
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Psychological schema are adaptive to the environment, and persist when the environment changes. We're slow to update the model. Not sure how much that explains a preference for complaining vs. elevating, but its good to be aware of
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wow. yes. i needed to read this rn
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