The aim of some schools of Feminism yes, to remove gender as it's a system of sex rank. But we aren't in that world yet obviously. Nobody likes sexism, or stereotyping, but why say you are gender-free, how would this even be possible in our so gendered society?
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It means I don't personally subscribe to those rules because gender is not innate, though I understand there are people who do feel they have an internal gender. It's important to say so at this moment because there is a very loud narrative that everyone has an innate gender
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Ok, I just think it might be considerate if ppl clarified that gender-free doesn't mean free of gendered presentation or free of normative gendered presentation, because it's a particular life experience not being easily coded by others as gendered.
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Replying to @Finn_Mackay @citizencath and
Most women if they put on, say, jeans and a plain boxy t-shirt, without make up or hair styling are immediately recognisable as women. Its not "gendered presentation" that is being read, but they are still subject to gendered expectations.
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Replying to @MForstater @citizencath and
That's your experience. I'm routinely read as a young man or as a what's that. I'm female. I think you really underestimate how rigid gender norms are & how quickly ppl make snap judgements about others based on v basic stereotypical outward gender cues.
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Replying to @Finn_Mackay @citizencath and
Yes I agree people make snap judgements based on gender norms. But my point is people also read sex (and then bundle it up with gendered expectations) in the absence of *any* external gendered clothing cues...
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Replying to @MForstater @Finn_Mackay and
... So the idea that women who are routinely read as female, must be putting on a some external form of gendered expression also does not work.
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Replying to @MForstater @citizencath and
You are saying that some/all women don't put on an external form of gendered presentation? What is femininity then? Why do so many women talk of how they feel pressured to express femininity outwardly through gendered appearance?
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Replying to @Finn_Mackay @citizencath and
No I am saying most men & women if they wear "gender neutral" clothing that is neither coded male or female and they do nothing in terms of adopting a hairstyle, makeup, or other external cues are still correctly read as their sex
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And because they are correctly read as their sex, people apply gendered expectations (eg of who can be pushed around, talked over, sexually objectified etc) But it's not based on what a woman wears!
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Replying to @MForstater @citizencath and
Whether you are read as a woman or man actually depends v much on what you wear. I've been asked, when walking through Soho if I was "interested in a girl Sir?" I've been hit on by older gay men calling me a "nice young man". Has this happened to you in jeans & a boxy tee shirt?
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Replying to @Finn_Mackay @citizencath and
No it hasn't (at least since puberty I've not been mistaken for a boy). But presumably it would happen to a man wearing the same outfit. So how can it be clothes that are what mark me out as female?
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