The white stripe in the center of the most prominent trans pride flag represents those who are intersex, transitioning and undefined or nonbinary. In other words it's about the differentiation of people who stand apart from society's traditional gender ideas
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Replying to @TheMercifulZeus @NorthForBritain and
When educating children about this issue its common to refer to gender stereotypes (like the mermaids GI Joe / Barbie scale). Gender stereotypes are harmful and should be avoided (especially with children). What's the alternative?
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Replying to @Salapandas @NorthForBritain and
I would guess a frank if simple explanation that sometimes people know that they aren't what they were born as and what the world thinks they are. It's hard to say as a pure hypothetical without a more specific age group and as I'm not an early childhood development specialist
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Replying to @TheMercifulZeus @Salapandas and
You could potentially explain how frustrating it would be if the world started insisting on referring to them as the wrong gender. Or maybe if you really needed to abstract it, if people expected them to be an animal instead of a person. Something to illustrate the disconnect
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Replying to @TheMercifulZeus @Salapandas and
The most important part is that it's rooted in empathy and respect for other people's sense of who they are. As long as you can make sure that lands I think things will be fine
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Replying to @TheMercifulZeus @NorthForBritain and
That's not what this book does though, is it? Hence the comments made against said book. You can teach children about empathy and differences without reinforcing harmful gender stereotypes. A boy who likes wearing a dress, what's wrong with that?
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Replying to @Salapandas @NorthForBritain and
Absolutely nothing as far as I'm concerned. The comment I was initially replying to was complaining that people would be labeled trans for having non traditional preferences. If the concern was rooted in being a misrepresentation of trans identity it'd be a different conversation
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Replying to @TheMercifulZeus @NorthForBritain and
But that's the confusing message of these teaching tools. I see the mermaids GI Joe/Barbie scale and can't see how the message is anything other than "if you identify with male stereotypes you're a man, if you identify with female stereotypes you're a woman". Harmful & regressive
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Replying to @Salapandas @NorthForBritain and
If that really is all the example breaks down to then yeah, absolutely that's a problem. But it's a problem for everyone. My issue was that pitching the debate as how this hurts cis people ignores how it may hurt trans people who are already usually the ones getting hurt here
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Replying to @TheMercifulZeus @Salapandas and
Seeing that and having your only concern be "cis kids are going to be told they're trans!" isn't really helping as much as someone might think it is. At best it's misguided and underdeveloped. At worst it's, well, worse
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The idea of innate gender is a belief system. Children should be taught (at an age when they have enough theory of mind to understand) about different beliefs. They shld not be told when they are too young to assess the claim that they & everyone else has innate gender identity.
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Replying to @MForstater @Salapandas and
You might as well argue that you shouldn't explain that the earth is round until they can understand that some people don't believe it is. Just because you don't believe someone may have an innate sense of who they are doesn't mean medical science or lived experience agrees
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Replying to @TheMercifulZeus @MForstater and
But the earth being round is an accepted scientific fact with lots of evidence, its not a belief. That's your difference.
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