Lux   Alptraum

@LuxAlptraum

Book author, newsletter writer (links here: ). Peabody nominee. Married to the sea. Pay me money to write smart things. she/her

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Vrijeme pridruživanja: siječanj 2007.
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  1. Prikvačeni tweet
    20. stu 2018.

    I wrote a book about sex, lies, and the women who tell those lies. BuzzFeed says it’ll change your life. Buy it here:

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  2. prije 60 sekundi

    I take the bus a lot more now that I live in Brooklyn — it’s the best way to get to Greenpoint/Williamsburg, where I have a lot loved ones — and the news buses themselves are great (clear stop announcements! USB ports at every seat!), but omg, if they came every five minutes?

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  3. prije 3 minute

    I’m listening to the latest about the bus and daydreaming about how much I would love taking the bus in NYC if every bus came frequently and had a dedicated lane.

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  4. prije 28 minuta

    To be fair I have only met my dad’s cousin once and gotten zero financial gain from the relationship, unless you count a free dinner.

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  5. prije 29 minuta

    ME: Everyone in media is some rich kid legacy propped up by family wealth! Not me though! ALSO ME: BTW my dad’s cousin is a Hollywood big shot.

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  6. prije 36 minuta

    A while back one of my friends revealed that she’d had a pony as a kid and I was 🤯

    One thing I know about white people is some of them secretly have horses. Secret horses are a thing, I swear. Say things like “wow, I wonder what it would be like to own a real pony, would you feed it carrots and alfalfa” and watch them get very nervous.
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  7. prije 39 minuta

    Also I get why pubs are weird about being transparent about their rates but you should at least be open about what your floor is.

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  8. prije 41 minutu

    You only see *paying* as something to brag about if you are practically asking people to do work for free.

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  9. prije 41 minutu

    HOT TIP: Any publication that says “We pay!” without posting a rate does not pay well.

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    prije 1 sat

    What’s so depressing about this is that this is a conversation that absolutely needs to happen, but there are still so many people who still to refuse to understand even the basics of consent/assault & so bringing up this nuance becomes a nightmare.

    Part of why this binary framework of consensual healthy sex vs non-consensual sexual assault is... unhelpful is because you can be harmed and traumatized by experiences that you consent to, and the fact that you consented doesn’t erase the trauma.
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  11. prije 2 sata

    And New Hampshire isn’t much better!

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  12. prije 2 sata

    Iowa isn’t even remotely representative of the country, or the Democratic Party, at large, and this narrative that winning Iowa == the people’s choice is disturbing.

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  13. prije 2 sata

    The degree of power we give *Iowa* is really fucked.

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  14. prije 4 sata

    You only *wish* I wanted to leak this story early

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  15. prije 4 sata

    So many times when I get an EMBARGOED!!!!!! press release it's news literally no one gives a shit about

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    prije 5 sati

    YES this! My therapist once told me something that changed how I think about sex: sometimes you don’t consent to yourself. I would say “yes” to sex and I would mean it, but my actions crossed my limits. I was pushing myself to have sex w/o thinking about whether I was ready

    Part of why this binary framework of consensual healthy sex vs non-consensual sexual assault is... unhelpful is because you can be harmed and traumatized by experiences that you consent to, and the fact that you consented doesn’t erase the trauma.
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  17. prije 5 sati

    Sometimes people adopt the language of assault and survivor because it’s the only language they have access to that feels like it validates their trauma and pain. I don’t think we should fault hurt people for latching onto the only tools available to heal.

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  18. prije 5 sati

    Honestly, part of the problem with the Aziz Babe piece was that our language is so limited that the only words there were to convey that he acted in a way that caused someone harm were “sexual assault,” when, you know, obviously there was a massive ocean between him and say, CK.

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  19. prije 5 sati

    Sex and relationships are messy and complicated and difficult and I wish we could carve out more space for one another to have a range of complicated emotions about our experiences.

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  20. prije 5 sati

    It’s frustrating when the conversation you want to have is, “Hey, I know I agreed to this but I didn’t like it and it made me feel bad,” and the response you get is, “NO TAKE BACKS I’M NOT A RAPIST YOU SIGNED THE CONSENT CONTRACT.”

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  21. prije 5 sati

    The fact that someone was harmed and traumatized doesn’t mean there has to be a villain in the mix. Harm does not require intent to occur. But our limited framework for discussing injury prevents us from seeing that, which prevents people from accessing healing.

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