“Men are posting pictures of what they imagine my vagina to look like” by Madelaine Hanson https://medium.com/@madelainehanson/men-are-posting-pictures-of-what-they-imagine-my-vagina-to-look-like-2bd3c9f872d …
TIL : what incel means. Quite frankly that’s just the most. My spouse is a woman but I’ve dated a few guys. Many weren’t the most physically attractive but most were sweet and polite. Held doors for me. Never expected sex. The few that weren’t like that didn’t last.
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I've never gone for pretty or conventionally attractive blokes. A friend pointed out to me when we were younger that I go for men with big noses and 'weird faces' lol. People find all kinds of features physically attractive, but it's the personality that keeps you talking to them
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Exactly! Great conversation is where it is at! That and cuddles. Give me both and mutual attraction. That combo is what relationships are made of, at least to me. Not saying that’s all but it’s mainly about that connection and those seem to play a big role for me.
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You have to have both. Physical attraction is important - you never look across a crowded room and think "He looks like he has a great personality!" - but attraction is difficult to quantify. And it quickly evaporates if he turns out to be a total knob!
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I agree that physical plays a role but if that personality is crap then its kind of a waste at that point.
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Yes, it's amazing how that totally hot person can just kill it stone dead with one sentence
Happened so many times to me over the years. "You were so attractive. Then you started speaking" 

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I think that’s where I got blessed. Been with my spouse for about 10 years now. We had some off periods early on as I moved around a bit so it was hard to maintain a relationship like that. Yet once I moved back in state her and I have been together ever since.
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So about 7 years now with no off periods I’d say. Truly an amazing individual and I’m very blessed to have her in my life. I guess I never expected to be married, much less meet the love of my life, especially so young.
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