Before I take my break, I do want to address something re: the company he founded. As I understand it, the person has not been associated with that company for several years, and I hope that they will not suffer as a result of my essay. Be kind to them, they are good people.
How the fuck is this the hardest thing imaginable? She's getting celebrated as a HERO. You know what's harder? Dealing with false, exaggerated, misremembered, or non-standardly defined accusations. Even if you are innocent, your reputation is fucking destroyed. That's harder.