I was thinking about this yesterday as I was trying to go to sleep and I realised that while I was open to the idea of dating a non-asexual man, I don't think I actually WANT to.
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If I dedicate myself to someone, do everything for him, shower him with affection, cook, clean, love - and yet he doesn't feel intimate because I don't want him to put his dick in me, that's NOT MY FUCKING PROBLEM
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And that's actually rather freeing. But also kind of depressing because oh my goodness are the pickings slim.
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I'd discuss this on AVEN but I know it would just bring all the angry sexual people whose ace partners won't let them mash sweaty smelly body parts together out. It does piss me off that AVEN seems more to be about helping them rather than, you know, asexual people
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Is this elitism? idk. maybe. But I'm not judging people who do feel intimate when they have sex, only people who could have every other form of intimacy in the world laid at their feet and it wouldn't be enough.
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Replying to @EggplantWitch
hello hi just wanted to let you know your feelings are valid <3 also, not all men are about their youknowwhats - i'm sure one day you might find that perfect person you'd like to spend time with - after all isn't a relationship being with your best friend all the time?
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(also if i'm ever in a relationship screw doing all their cooking and cleaning, we're a team!!)
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