One thing that I appreciate about my man: he actually takes my advice. YES! I KNOW! GROUNDBREAKING! If I tell him "you should do X by going to Y & asking for Z" he will literally get up, start putting on some clothes, and by the end of the call he'll be out the door on his way.
Exactly. Chamorro men are conditioned. I'm guilty of doing this with my little brother. Trying to undo cultural conditioning, or at least making men aware of it, to accept it, is hard.
trust me if I had one to recommend I would