I've been to a few family gatherings for distant family where I have Refaluwasch who married into my family, and it was beautiful, and it was HUGE. It was nice to see the people come together. But, genuinely curious, are you referring to a specific incident of exclusion?
Ahh ok I get it. Yeah the Mauna Kea one was pretty shitty. I missed the conference, so I didn't see what it was about. I think the thing is its only just now that we as a whole are embracing inclusivity. I think the message of inclusion will continue to grow with the manhoben.