Kevin Simler

Curious to hear you say more about “not doing happy very well.”

Well, for one, mood is kinda negative, chronic depression, anxiety, take meds. My global happiness maybe 4/10, but satisfaction 7/10.

I prefer "flow" activities, usually solitary to "fun". If I use word "fun" trends to be semi-ironic, like a mountain bike descent that was

pretty hairy, but you're pleased to find that u survived. Phrase "happiness is a social emotion" clicked for me; "happiness is other people"

was always "WTF r u talking, man". I do underestimate how much I will like social, but the only social that reliably gets me pumped is

intellectual conversation. Wife has 'splained the social fun thing to me, and IDGI. Seeing this as aspie/NT thing is helpful.

jumping in. In RL, normie audience, if I speak up, tends to kill convo dead; new topic needed. Not good at the infinite conversation game.

On my feed yesterday, someone else observed that before social media ppl who smile by themselves were crazy. Smiling is def social, and